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"bury his father,” it did not necessarily mean his father had died. It meant he was waiting
until his father died in order to receive the inheritance that rightfully belonged to him. So,
when this man used this excuse, he was placing his future inheritance before the call of
the Lord Jesus Christ. At the critical moment when Jesus calls a man to follow Him and
become a leader, nothing must be placed before that call.
In another passage, Jesus explained in more detail the importance of proper priorities:
Then said Jesus unto His disciples, If any man will come after me, let him
deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. (Matthew 16:24)
Self-denial must come before we can take up the cross. The old selfish and sinful nature
must be denied. (Read Romans 7-8 about Paul's struggle in this area.) When self has
died, the cross must become your priority. The cross is symbolic of the sacrifice, pain,
rejection, insult, and hardship involved in doing God's will. The cross may even mean a
call to death by martyrdom for the sake of the Gospel.
"Taking up the cross" does not refer to the burdens of life. These are common to all men.
They are the afflictions, trials, disappointments, and depression that come to us because
of living in a sinful world. The believer is not excluded from such burdens of life. He
experiences illness, accidents, fire, and natural hazards because he lives in a world marred
by sin. But these burdens are not "taking up the cross.” Cross bearing is voluntary, not
something imposed by the burdens of life. It is a continuous (daily) choosing to deny the
desires of self in order to do God's will.
Jesus said, "Whosoever doth not bear his cross and come after me, cannot be my
disciple." Taking up the cross is not pleasing to human nature because it involves self
denial. It must be done voluntarily for the sake of Christ.
To take up the cross, you must empty your hands of the things of the world. If your heart
is set on money and material things, your hands are too full to take up the cross. If your
time is consumed by pleasure and things that please the flesh, your hands are too full to
take up the cross. After denying self and taking up the cross, the next step is to follow.
You must leave behind the old lifestyle and sinful relationships.
You will never become a leader by sitting and waiting for it to happen. YOU must take
the first steps: Deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow. Matthew could have
remained at the tax table and Peter at his nets. They could both have pursued their trades
honestly and might have enjoyed spiritual experiences. But if they wanted to become
spiritual leaders, they had to leave the old situation and enter the new. Matthew left the
tax tables and Peter left his nets.
This does not mean everyone must leave his present job and home to become a leader.