Jesus said, "If you follow me, this is what you will face.@ He explained that true discipleship is
costly. It cannot be achieved through self-effort.
2. PROPER PRIORITIES: (Luke 9:59-60)
The second man was called by Jesus to "follow.@ To "follow" means to come after one that goes
before, to imitate an example. It involves both belief and obedience. When Jesus called His 12
disciples, He bid them come and follow. He did not outline a career path. He did not give
details of the program for life.
The disciple must leave the old life behind because of the call alone. What decisions and
partings and sacrifices this might require remain unknown. The follower leaves a life of security
for one of insecurity in the eyes of the world. The commitment is not to a program, but to a
person. That person is the Lord Jesus Christ.
In the Luke passage, the response of this man to the call to follow was "suffer me first..." He
wanted to follow Jesus, but it was not his priority. Jesus would never suggest that a follower of
His ignore the needs of his parents (see John 19:25-27). It is a matter of priorities which is
stressed in this story. This man wanted to bury his father first. At the critical moment when
Jesus calls a man to follow Him, nothing must be placed before response to that call.
In another passage, Jesus explained in more detail what "following" involves:
Then said Jesus unto His disciples, If any man will come after me, let him
deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. (Matthew 16:24)
Self-denial must come before you can take up the cross. The old selfish and sinful nature must be
denied. (Read Romans 7-8 about Paul's struggle in this area). Then you must take up the cross.
The cross is symbolic of the sacrifice, pain, rejection, insult, and hardship involved in doing
God's will. The cross may even mean a call to death by martyrdom for the sake of the Gospel.
"Taking up the cross" does not refer to the burdens of life. These are common to all men. They
are the afflictions, trials, disappointments, and depression due to life in a sinful world. The
believer is not excluded from such burdens of life. He experiences illness, accidents, fire, and
natural hazards because he lives in a world marred by sin. But these burdens are not "taking up
the cross.@ Cross bearing is voluntary, not something imposed by the burdens of life. It is a
continuous (daily) choosing to deny the desires of self in order to do God's will.
Cross-bearing is necessary to discipleship. Jesus said, "Whosoever doth not bear his cross and
come after me, cannot be my disciple." Taking up the cross is not pleasing because it involves
self denial. But it must be done voluntarily for the sake of Christ in order to become His disciple.
To take up the cross, you must empty your hands of the things of the world. If your heart is set
on money and material things, your hands are too full to take up the cross. If your time is